Ana's very kindly given me an award:
There are things that I've inspired that I would rather not have done. Disdain, derision, outright hatred sometimes, although nobody feels the need to explain these feelings that they have, other than to the extent that it is my fault. There are odd moments when I feel hurt by that, but less and less these days, I'm pleased to report. One can't win against a person who is agreeing with one - if one tries, it backfires very badly. That's a truth that a few people could benefit from acknowledging.
Anyway, I digress - I'll do some research and find some blogs to pass this on to.